We all walk a different path and march to a different drum, but most people can agree that life has become fast and chaotic. We often find ourselves pulled in different directions at the same time, often working to the detriment of what we are trying to achieve in the current moment of existence. The practice of meditation has been shown to help practitioners find mental clarity and peace of mind. Many of life’s day to day stresses lose their hold on us if we find even a few moments of meditative focus each day.
Meditation has been around for roughly 5000 years, having its origins in ancient India. Various forms of meditation have also been known to originate in China and through the practices of Buddhism. The enormity of the whole picture is that you do not have to be tethered to any specific religion to meditate or practice mindfulness. Meditation is for anyone seeking a way towards righting the chaos and turning down the white noise in their individual existence.
The mala is a simple tool used to assist in the performance of meditation. A mala is a string of beads, traditionally 108, beginning and terminating at one larger bead known as the guru (teacher or master) bead. It enables the user to keep track of the number of iterations of one’s mantra, a word or phrase repeated to help maintain concentration in meditation. The mantra is generally recited in 108 repetitions, once for each mala bead. Malas also come in 18, 27 and 54 bead lengths for shorter recitations. Malas for shorter recitations generally employ larger beads than the ones featured here.

At the best of times, meditation can be difficult. Sometimes when I perform my deep breathing meditation, I “wake up” following a 10 minute snooze on the rug. After one such laughable performance, my father insisted that I was so deep into it, I reached a very deep state of relaxation. Good save–this is parental encouragement at its best, especially coming from a man who attends 24 hour meditation sessions with ease! I still have a long way to go, but I keep in mind that it takes time and much practice, sometimes even a lifelong dedication, to be able to clear the mind for even the briefest of intervals. Once it is possible for a short time, the time interval can be increased slowly by a few seconds and then a few minutes at a time.

To begin your meditation practice, first choose your mantra. It could be “Love” or “Om”, or something meaningful to you that comes easily to mind and can be repeated to yourself without feeling selfconscious. My mantra is Shanti, which means peace. Sitting comfortably on the floor, loosely hold your mala in your dominant hand with
the first bead (after the guru bead) between your thumb and first finger. Use your thumb to guide your way through each bead on the mala as you recite your mantra.
When you reach the last bead before the guru bead, turn the mala and return back over the mala to the start. As you repeat your mantra, filling your heart with positivity, it resonates within you, helping to uplift your spirit through the power of mind focus and clarity. Alternatively, you can perform deep breathing as you work your way through your mala instead of using a mantra. Do not be discouraged or frustrated if you find yourself distracted or your mind wandering. This practice takes time and patience, and the worst thing you could do is give up. Just take a deep breath and keep going.

Finally, choosing a mala can be difficult as there is so much choice available in today’s global marketplace. Generally, you will find yourself drawn to a specific stone, pattern or material. For example I never really liked Tiger’s eye, however, when it came time to choose my mala I found myself inexplicably drawn to this stone. As well, gemstones and crystals display various healing properties and a mala can be chosen based on the desired stone properties. (For more information on healing properties of crystals and stones, see Source: Gemstone Healing Properties: Charms of Light )

On the other hand, it’s hard to explain, but sometimes the mala chooses the wearer. If you find yourself drawn to a mala, go with your instinct. The malas available in Marshmallow Heart Shop include, but are not limited to the following gemstone beads:
- Tiger’s Eye is a stone of protection, helping to focus the mind and promote mental clarity, to name a few of its properties.
- Amethyst is revered for its ability to activate spiritual awareness and for its powerful healing and cleansing properties.
- Labradorite is a stone of transformation and helpful during times of change, giving strength and courage to the wearer.
- Obsidian is also a protective stone, becoming a shield against negativity and urging exploration of uncharted territory.
- Amazonite is a soothing stone, helping to change one’s perspective by enabling the wearer to see opposing sides of the problem.(Source: Gemstone Healing Properties: Charms of Light )
Hopefully, this information is helpful to you as you begin your journey on the path towards finding peace within yourself.
Namaste.
